all information will be kept confidential unless
you indicate that you would like to be listed on our website as a part of the LGBT Veterans Coming Out feature.
If you would like your story included, but wish to remain anonymous in name, we will list
your service and state of residence. For the Coming Out Day names list, we will list your name, service branch and dates,
current state of residence, and any awards you received. If you would like to include a photo with your story, please
make sure it is .gif or .jpg format, at least 150x150 pixels, no larger than 1MB, and tasteful.
CURRENT service members who would like to have their stories
about serving in silence listed on our site will be listed by their service and rank. Absolutely no current service
member names or unit identification will appear in our Coming Out feature. For your own security, do not use a government
computer to submit your stories.
Please limit Coming Out stories to 700 words or less. We reserve the right to edit
stories for length or spelling. Most word processing software and email clients have built in spell-checkers.
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Please list additional service information
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The Out Life
Did you know that you were [LGBT] while in service?
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Questioning
When did you come out for the first time?
month
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Overall, has being out been positive (10) or negative
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Please tell us about your experiences in service,
in relation to your orientation/gender identity, and/or your coming out story and how being out has affected you.
Attach
your photo if you wish to have it posted with your story on the AVER website. :
REMINDER! Folks who are serving RIGHT
NOW will ONLY be identified on the website by their service and rank. All identifying
information is kept STRICTLY confidential for current service members.
If you are a veteran, please indicate here whether we may publish your name with your story, or if you are submitting
your info just for us to keep count of our million veteran target.
Publish my name, rank, service and story
--
story, rank and state OK, but NO name
--
anonymous, just count me for the million veteran target